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It was the most brutal and callous of deaths.
First, He was tied to a post like an animal, and His clothes were torn from Him, and then the beating started.
The beating was so severe that it tore His flesh from Him.
His back was so beaten that His ribs were exposed—His beard torn from His face—a crown of thorns placed on His head so brutally that blood flowed.
But that wasn’t enough.
They untied Him and placed a heavy cross on Him and made Him carry it up Golgotha.
He got halfway before Simon of Cyrene took the cross and carried it the rest of the way.
When they got to the top, they laid Him on the cross, and they drove nails as big as railway spikes through His hands and feet, and then they lifted Him up and cruelly dropped Him into a hole (prepared beforehand).
For many hours, He agonisingly hung there.
Not because He had to, but because He chose to.
He cried out at one stage (Eloi Eloi Lama Sabachtani), "My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?”
Such must have been His pain that we cannot even imagine.
JESUS paid the price for our sins. A price that we could never pay. (It wasn’t an Easter bunny hanging on the cross—it was Jesus Christ—Son of God).
And He did it for you.
Such was His mercy and grace that He pleads with God, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.”
So, please remember Him today. Jesus paid the price for you because you are valuable to Him.
Let love prevail.
As opposed to Psalm Sunday and the triumphant entry to Jerusalem only a few days ago, Good Friday does not appear to be a day of triumph. There is no applause here, no victory parade, no easy resolution. The cheers of Psalm Sunday have faded into the distance, swallowed by silence and fear.
The crowds that once cried, "Hosanna," now shout, "Crucify Him."
Jesus stands condemned—abandoned by His friends, mocked by Roman soldiers, and rejected by His own people—the Jews. And yet, nothing here is accidental—this moment, this scene has always been His destination.
Crucifixion was Rome's ultimate tool of terror—reserved for slaves, rebels, and criminals. It was designed not only to kill the body, but to strip dignity from the soul. Victims were displayed, shamed, erased. Yet this is where the King chooses to reign.
The King on the Cross
Jesus knew this had to be done. He had asked for it to be taken away in the garden of Gethsemane only hours before ... and still He does not resist.
He does not call down angels. He does not defend Himself. Instead, Jesus prays, "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do" (Luke 23:43).
Even in agony, mercy flows. Even in humiliation, love speaks.
The one through whom all things were made now hangs in vulnerability, choosing forgiveness over vengeance, surrender over self-preservation.
Above His head hangs a sign meant to mock: "Jesus of Nazareth, the King of the Jews." The soldiers laugh. The leaders sneer. The crowd watches. Yet John's Gospel tells us something astonishing—this is enthronement. The cross is not an accident; it is the mission.
Jesus does not lose control. He gives Himself willingly, reigning not through force, but through faithfulness.
The apostle Paul later reflects on this mystery, writing that Christ, "being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to His own advantage; rather, He made Himself nothing .. He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross" (Philippians 2:6-8). Hear those words, "He made Himself nothing!"
When obedience is painful and outcomes uncertain, the cross invites us to trust. When forgiveness feels impossible, the cross reminds us of grace freely given. "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13).
Call to Action
Today is as good a day as any for you to come to the cross honestly. Lay down your guilt, your shame, your bitterness, and your self-reliance. Jesus doesn't mind if you die on the same day as He did. He knows that resurrection is coming. Look to the Crucified King and hear His words of mercy. Receive His forgiveness—and extend it to others.
Choose the way of sacrificial love.
Wasting Our Lives On Jesus
- John 12:2-9
Bethany is the hometown of Lazarus, Mary and Martha, who were close friends of Jesus who welcomed Him into their house and into their lives.
It was at the home of Simon the leper that Mary took an alabaster jar, which was a beautiful and expensive carved vase that contained a costly perfume, and she poured it on Jesus’s feet.
The perfume was worth 300 denarii, which was roughly a year’s wages for a common worker.
Those around them who were attending the dinner, including the disciples and Judas, looked at this act of honouring Jesus as a waste.
For Jesus, who saw Mary’s heart, it was an act of worship - of complete surrender.
What looks like waste to some is often the truest expression of devotion to God.
Mary’s gift was costly, public, and irreversible.
What does waste really mean?
Well, in a narrow sense, it means giving too much for too little.
BUT Mary gave too much for the One who is WORTH EVERYTHING.
She gave her best when the moment demanded her best- she took a wide view of ‘Everything Belongs to Him’… The Lord is not satisfied with partial devotion; He wants our lives poured out.
Jesus said, “She has done a beautiful thing to me . . . (vs 8.) She did what she could. She poured perfume on my body beforehand to prepare for my burial.”
I believe Mary sensed the urgency of His death . . . because at the empty tomb, when the women came to anoint Jesus body, they were too late . . . Jesus had already risen. Mary acted before the hour of Christ's death; she gave all she had while there was still time to do so, she wasn’t waiting until . . .
How often do we wait until . . . Until what?
We have enough money, time . . . what?
Now that’s a waste . . . and the longer we hold, put away, keep for later, aren’t we saying to Jesus, “You are not worthy of ALL our honour, love, devotion!” Isn’t that what we’re saying- I don’t surrender all!!!
Our jars are filled with time, talent, treasure, reputation, and most of all love.
God ask each one of us to break the seal and pour it out; not because He needs our things, but because He wants our hearts.
When Mary broke the Alabaster jar, the house was filled with fragrance; I’m sure it lingered for many days after.
The image is powerful.
Whenever someone truly pours out their life for the Lord, an aroma surrounds them.
It is not always pleasant to the world- some will scoff, some will criticise, some will call it waste. But the lingering fragrance testifies to a life surrendered to God.
If you are tempted to hold back, remember the empty tomb and the urgency of the hour.
The moment to anoint is now.
Ah, that beautiful analogy in John 15 where Jesus compares our relationship with Himself and the Father and we, His disciples. I love the very first line where Jesus calls Himself “the true vine”, the connotation being that the grape vine was created to be a physical representation of Jesus’ spiritual relationship with his people.
I want to hone in on one of Jesus’ remarks in this chapter, “Abide in Me”. Now if we consider a grape vine, we have a large old trunk (the Vine), which produces long leafy branches usually held off the ground by a trellis. The branches are where the fruit is produced, not the trunk. The trunk produces life in the branches through the flow of sap from the roots. So the trunk supports the branches as they produce fruit.
Jesus says, “As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me”. The very next verse ends in the declaration, “without me you can do nothing”. So, essentially, if we don’t abide in Christ, we can do nothing of any significance unless we are so connected to Him that He becomes our abode or home. I can almost hear the cogs turning as we all remember the Psalmist’s first thought in chapter 91, “. . .whoever dwells (lives) in the secret place of the Most High (God), will ABIDE under the shadow of the Almighty”. Paraphrased: Whoever abides in God will live in His very shadow.
Jesus gives us the antidote for striving and self-effort to bring change in our lives. We can’t do it unless we abide in him. To eat of His flesh and drink of His blood. To take Him in as your daily bread. To drink of Him as your living water. To learn of Him. To obey Him. To remain as close to Him in your daily walk as your very own life, for His Holy Spirit lives in you and without Him, we can do nothing.
Scripture reminds us that waiting is not wasted time. Throughout the Bible, we see God working deeply in seasons of waiting — shaping character, strengthening trust, and drawing hearts closer to Him. Waiting does not mean God is absent; often, it is where His quiet work takes place.
For many people walking through recovery, grief, or personal struggle, the waiting can feel especially heavy. Yet God meets us there — not always with quick answers, but with steady presence. He is faithful even when progress feels slow and hope feels fragile.
If you find yourself in a season of waiting, be encouraged. God’s goodness is not measured by speed but by faithfulness. Continue to seek Him, even with small, honest prayers. Trust that He is at work in ways you may not yet see.
May you find peace in knowing that God is near, attentive, and faithful — even in the waiting.
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